Sometimes, after a disturbing day or after witnessing a shocking event, children tend to have nightmares. Here, we're not going to delve deeper into the science of why they occur, but discuss ways of dealing with these nightmares, specially when your own children experience them. When your child has had a nightmare, he might wake up scared, crying, or even extremely inconsolable. Sometimes, nightmares leave children so full of fear that they find it difficult to communicate for sometime. As a caring parent, you might want to know what exactly the nightmare was about, but it is advised that you don't fire away questions immediately. Sometimes, aggressive and sexual impulses are reflected in dreams, which might make it difficult for your child to communicate with you instantly.
Deny The Existence of Nightmares
If he tells you that he's dreamt about something fearful and is scared, tell him to focus on happy things instead. Tell him it's okay to have such nightmares, but in the end, they're not true and never will be.
Try to Figure Out What They Saw
If your child is finding it difficult to communicate, to tell you what he saw in his nightmare, ask him to draw it instead. He might reject this idea out of fear. If he does, don't ask him to do it again. However, if he agrees, ask him to tear the paper after he's done drawing to make him feel confident about himself.
Don't Expose Them to Horror or Terror
Sometimes, nightmares are an outcome of what children see on the television. Make sure that your child isn't seeing anything that will disturb him or something that might come as a cultural shock.
Tell Them It Happens With Everyone
After a few days have passed, talk to him about nightmares. Tell him why people have them and why they're not to be taken seriously. Once he understands that they don't matter, he'll stop giving them importance.