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How to Make a 50/50 Parenting Plan That’s Fair and Honest

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Co-parenting can be hard, especially when you have two different schedules or too many disagreements. You could always take the case to court, but that’s expensive and there’s no guarantee you’ll win. To keep things out of court and create a routine that works for everyone, you have to come up with a 50/50 parenting plan. In fact, most courts suggest it.

What is a 50/50 parenting plan?

As with anything that’s balanced, a 50/50 parent visitation plan allows both parents to spend equal amounts of time with the child(ren). Families then know exactly what to expect, with clear guidelines and responsibilities laid out ahead of time. Over time, this can help reduce conflict and streamline schedules between two different houses.

How to make a parenting schedule that’s fair and convenient

Routines that work in one house may not work in another, so some compromises will always have to be made. Keep the peace by prioritizing the following 6 things:

  • Worry about work. Your schedule might not match the other parents, so communicate your workload details at least 7 days in advance if possible.
  • Share special moments. It’s not fair to hog all the good stuff for yourself. To prevent mishaps, be cordial so you can both attend milestone events.
  • Be reasonable about religion. That means allowing your children to explore their other parent’s religious views even if you don’t necessarily agree with them.
  • Seek school security. In other words, never pull your kids away from their school life if you don’t have to. This is especially important for upperclassmen and soon-to-be graduates.
  • Split the distance. If you have moved far away from your children’s home, always try to meet in the middle when it’s your turn for parenting time.
  • Consider the kids, because it’s their health and happiness that’s most important at the end of the day.

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Creating the perfect 50/50 parenting plan is a lot easier when you’re willing to prioritize what’s most important. Once you’re in the groove, you can create a joint custody agreement that works for everybody and watch as your kids grow up well-rounded as a result.

3 steps to your perfect 50/50 parenting plan

Take a more proactive approach to co-parenting. You don’t need lawyers and judges to tell you what to do. All you need are a few simple steps to follow when you’re ready. So, here’s how to create the perfect schedule regardless of the day-to-day drama:

  1. Review your lifestyle. Then, come to the table with clear expectations and boundaries. Also, expect the other parent to do the same so be prepared for negotiations.
  2. Talk to the other parent. Make sure you understand their needs and be considerate of their new lifestyle. Now is not the time to punish your ex for the breakup.
  3. Agree on a schedule. That way, you can weave together any arrangement you desire without legal interference from the state.

You can keep things out of court by openly communicating your thoughts, worries, and expectations.

The takeaway

Raising a family is already tough, but co-parenting can make it harder. Ease the strain by creating an agreeable 50/50 parenting plan before hiring a lawyer.

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